don991

Moin Leute, bin neu hier und ein blutiger Anfänger. Eskalieren usw hab ich drauf, beim KC haperts allerdings noch, weshalb ich am liebsten Routinen verwende. Eine Routine, die ich beim Lesen besonders ansprechend fand, ist folgende: „Imagine you’re walking out of Venue Two on your first date. You’ve already regaled your girl with funny stories and interesting takes on historical events so she’s been giggling. Her hand went soft when you inspected her nail polish and now as you walk down the street perhaps she’s “accidently” bumping into you. It sounds like the kiss is on, but she hasn’t quite put herself into position. Perhaps the venue seating arrangements screwed you. Your favourite booth in the corner was taken so you ended up sitting opposite each other in rickety chairs with a coffee table between you. You tried pulling her in a little and she didn’t seem to take the hint. Hmmmmmm. What to do? You have to make your move before the window closes and you stall out. Time for a gambit. Pick a visible feature on the street about twenty metres away. A lampost, a letter box, a shop front. Whatever. Then as you’re comfortably walking side by side, point at it. You: Can you see that letter box over there? Her: Where? You: There, the red one. Her: Yes You: When we get there, I’m going to kiss you. Her reaction doesn’t matter. Maybe she giggles and goes red. Maybe she goes silent. Maybe she pushes back with “no you won’t”. None of that matters. You are Making Your Move so you must follow through. It doesn’t matter if you actually get the kiss, it matters that you were ballsy and calm about going for it. Don’t rush. Perhaps deliberately go silent as you walk, letting her head spin with anticipation. Don’t babble. If she seemed playfully receptive then make a joke out of taking your sweet time. Fasten your shoelace, check out a shop window – so she knows you’re deliberately dragging out the moment. And once you arrive at the letter box, turn her to face you, tilt up her chin with your fingertip, and kiss her.“ Zu der Routine hab ich allerdings sonst nichts weiter gefunden. Daher meine Frage: macht die Routine aus theoretischer Sicht Sinn? Hat jemand sie schon getestet? Gruss!