Cassius.

A quick piece of advice: Don't ever tell a chick that she's hard to get a hold of, or ask her why she didn't return your messages, etc. It shows neediness. It is one of my absolutely golden and unbreakable rules. I have sometimes had chicks give me complete radio silence for anywhere from several weeks to several months, then suddenly re-initiate contact. I NEVER mention "wow where have you been all this time" because I presume that she's been busy, and so have I. More than one girl has told me how much she appreciates that particular form of non-neediness (acting like weeks or months of no contact is no big deal). Why is this so important for chicks? From an emotional standpoint, a chick will go into periods of depression/jealousy/uncertainty where she is caught up in how she feels about some other guy(s). During that time, the last thing she wants is a random guy she only met once on the street for 5 minutes asking her why she doesn't return calls. Just keep her lightly pinged, and if she does not reply to a message then increase the interval. Eventually, she MAY reply and be interested again. Is it fair? Would a business survive if it operated that way? Hell no. But that's just the way it works.

Eskalation...gut beobachtet, genau das ist momentan mein sticking point wenn man so will. Bin hier seit April, dem lair allerdings erst im Juni beigetreten und im Juli dann angefangen regelmaessig rauszugehen...hab noch bis Mitte Dezember hier Zeit um mein Game auf Vordermann zu bringen.

I still have to work on the rating system, I'd say my HB scale starts at 5...thanks for pointing that out tho.