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[Mephisto 47]

HOW TO IMPRESS ANY WOMAN

Also im Artikel wird beschrieben, man sollte nicht versuchen die Frau zu beeindrucken. Jedoch kommt später im Artikel mal vor: "I do stunt work. Have you ever seen it in

a movie when a hot actor has to reveal his naked ass? That's my job." Also im Grunde ein beeindruckungsversuch pur!

Jedoch, seh ich hier die absicht richtig:

PUA erzählt er sei Stuntman (mit entsprechendem Grinser) und HB nimmt es kurz ernst gefolgt von confusion (lügt er jetzt oder nicht?) -> was ja dann so gut wäre!

Hab ich das richtig verstanden?

PS: wers nicht gelesen hat:

HOW TO IMPRESS ANY WOMAN

  I've learned a secret to impressing women that

I'm going to share with you in this newsletter.

  It's a secret that probably not 1 in 1,000 men

knows or will ever figure out on his own.

  The REASON that most men will never figure out

this particular secret is that it's TOO OBVIOUS.

  Let me explain...

  I personally think that most men feel a very

powerful desire to IMPRESS women.

  If you watch the way a man behaves when he's

talking to a woman he's just met or a woman that

he's on a first date with, you can SEE IT.

  Maybe you've been there yourself.

  I know I have. Many, many times, in fact.

  The feeling that you need to impress a woman

usually comes along with another feeling: DON'T

SCREW THIS UP.

  Here are some of the signs that a guy is

feeling the need to "impress" the woman that he's

talking to:

1) He tries to only say "cool" things, or things

that will "impress" the woman.

2) He acts nervous and stilted during the

conversation... sometimes coming across as

"formal".

3) He tries to figure out what the woman wants

to hear.

4) If he says something that the woman doesn't

like, he "back-pedals" and tries to change what

he said to suit the woman.

5) He doesn't say anything "risky", doesn't tease

the woman, and doesn't do anything to upset her.

...in other words, when a guy is talking to a

woman that he "likes", he's usually on his "best

behavior", and he's trying to "put his best foot

forward".

  To say it again, MEN FEEL A POWERFUL DRIVE

TO IMPRESS THE WOMAN THAT THEY "LIKE".

  And this drive to impress often makes them

act UNNATURAL.

  There's your first hint, in fact...

THE SECRET

  Remember at the beginning when I told you that

I was going to share a secret with you about how

to impress women that not 1 in 1,000 men will

figure out on their own?

  Well, here it is:

  STOP TRYING.

  If you will just STOP TRYING to impress women,

and do the things I'm teaching you instead, women

will NATURALLY be "impressed" by you.

TRYING TO IMPRESS A WOMAN DOESN'T IMPRESS HER.

  So let's break this down...

WHY IMPRESSING WOMEN IS THE WRONG ROAD

  What's wrong with trying to "impress" women,

anyway?

  To start with, EVERYTHING.

  When you intentionally try to impress a woman,

you send the following messages on a "subtle" level:

1) I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I

will try to "impress" you instead.

2) I'm not comfortable enough around women to just

act normal.

3) I don't have a lot of experience with attractive

women.

4) I'm insecure.

5) I don't know how to make women feel comfortable

with me.

  Ouch.

  But it's the truth.

  Women can TELL INSTANTLY when you're "trying".

  The conversation doesn't feel "normal", your

body language is strange, and you can't seem to

have a regular conversation.

  Now of course, I've just described the way that

about 99.9999% of men act when they're first talking

to a woman that they "like".

  Are you ready for a profound insight?

  Here goes...

MOST MEN DO THIS WITH MOST ATTRACTIVE WOMEN MOST

OF THE TIME. IN OTHER WORDS, IT'S OLD NEWS. IT'S

BORING. IT'S PREDICTABLE. AND IT DOES NOT IMPRESS

AT ALL.

  The bottom line is that trying to impress a

woman usually has the OPPOSITE effect.

  It not only makes you look like a nervous guy

who can't make normal conversation... it also

bores the hell out of women.

WHAT TO DO INSTEAD

  OK, so you're out having a cup of tea with a

beautiful woman you just met a few days before...

  She asks you what you do for a living.

  Should you answer with:

1) "Well, I'm an engineer for a software company

that makes sophisticated vector widget plotting

algorithms. I've been with them for three years,

and I'm about to be promoted to ALGORITHM

MANAGER."

2) "I do stunt work. Have you ever seen it in

a movie when a hot actor has to reveal his naked

ass? That's my job."

...?

  Well, it all depends on what your outcome is.

  If you want to try and IMPRESS the girl with

your cool high-tech job, then #1 will work just

fine.

  Unfortunately, it won't impress her at all,

and it will make you sound like a jackass who is

trying to sound cool.

  If you want to ACTUALLY impress her, try #2.

  Most men don't have the BALLS to say something

like this when a woman asks a "serious" question

like "What do you do?".

  If you REALLY want to make a long-lasting

impression, KEEP THE HUMOR GOING.

  She'll say "No, really... what do you do?".

  Answer with: "No, really. Haven't you ever

seen it when an actor needs a stunt ass? I mean

hey... someone's got to do it".

  Now, I can't possibly go into all the reasons

why it's a HUGE MISTAKE to try to impress a woman,

or to feel like everything you say should be

"impressive".

  There are MANY reasons for this.

  MORE IMPORTANTLY, there are a few things you

can do that will INSTANTLY impress a woman...

and I mean REALLY impress her.

  But these things aren't OBVIOUS.

  The most IMPORTANT thing you can do to

IMPRESS a woman is make her feel a powerful

emotional ATTRACTION for you.

  This feeling will stay with her long after you

have left and gone home.

  And it's the one thing that will make women

pursue YOU... and try to impress YOU.

  What's the best way to do this?

1) Stop trying to IMPRESS women. Stop now.

2) Go download a copy of my online eBook "Double

Your Dating", and read it. It contains literally

DOZENS and dozens of great techniques for you to

use that will make women feel ATTRACTION for you.

[Serano 8]

Das ist doch nur seine Abwandlung bzw. Ausformulierung der schon länger rumschwirrenden Shittest-Respone auf die Frage nach dem Beruf - bisher eher bekannt unter "Ich bin Arsch-Double für Hollywood-stars - wann immer du in einem Film einen nackten Hintern siehst, und der Schauspieler will das nicht selber machen, rufen sie mich ;)" - oder so.

Geht da glaub ich eher um den cocky&funny aspekt (wie ja auch fast immer bei DeAngelo ;) ) dieser Antwort als darum, damit *Frauen beeindrucken* zu können. Ums genauer zu sagen, er redet hier von zwei arten von *Frauen Beeindrucken* -

a) es durch angeberei mit seinen Erfolgen (seinen Besitztümern, oder was auch immer) zu VERSUCHEN, was aber nicht klappt

B) etwas zu sagen oder zu demonstrieren, wovon Frauen sich wirklich beeindruckt *fühlen*.

Unter "beeindrucken wollen" (im sinne von Angeben) würde ich auch nur Sachen fassen, die ernst gemeint sind und nicht schon soo offensichtlich als ironisch-humoristisch gedachtes Statement gemeint sein können.

[egoist 17]

Das ist doch nur seine Abwandlung bzw. Ausformulierung der schon länger rumschwirrenden Shittest-Respone auf die Frage nach dem Beruf .....

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nur eine frage: was hat das wort shittest da zu suchen?

[Serano 8]

Das ist doch nur seine Abwandlung bzw. Ausformulierung der schon länger rumschwirrenden Shittest-Respone auf die Frage nach dem Beruf .....

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nur eine frage: was hat das wort shittest da zu suchen?

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Ich hab das damals im Zusammenhang mit einem Text über extremly spoiled HB's gelesen - bei HB9, 9+ und ernsthaft arroganten Frauen, die meinen, nur Schauspieler, Rockstars, Millionäre usw. hätten sie verdient, soll die Frage nach dem Beruf auch als shittest zählen.

Ich bin in die Falle noch nicht getappt, aber macht doch Sinn wenn ich jetzt so drüber nachdenke. Aus diesem Text jedenfalls kannte ich halt diese Antwort, und so kam das Shittest da zum liegen.

[egoist 17]

okok, macht sinn, bei dem wort shittest frag ich nur immer nach, weil das gerne einfach mal irgendwo eingebaut wird ohne was dahinter (ala "dann fragt sie mich ob ich es mag wenn sie schluckt, voll der shittest eh, hab ihr sofort ins gesicht gespritzt" ;))