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  1. Folgendes. Sticking Point ist wohl, dass ich zwar als attraktiv wahrgenommen werde, die hübschen Mädels sich aber nicht angezogen fühlen. Gibt's schon einen Beitrag zum Thema "Anziehung herstellen" oder muss ich mit "Attraction is not a choise" leben?!

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    2. strawberrycream

      strawberrycream

      @Danyel: wenn man danach geht.. was es nicht alles im Inet gibt.. heißt trd nicht, dass es für die Mehrheit spricht. 

      Naja is mir auch egal. Wollte nur eben kurz meine Meinung einbringen. Vllt bringt es Alba86 ja was.

    3. bakura

      bakura

      @Roué 

      Zitat

      Dass man sie durch "game" dann hinterher "erobern" könne habe ich nicht bestätigen können und auch von anderen Playern bisher nicht gehört. Und wenn das sehr viele Leute so beschreiben frage ich mich wieso dieser Sachverhalt bisher nirgends hier von einer Frau mal klargestellt wurde.

       

      Das ist doch auch nichts neues... das stand doch so ungefähr auch schon so in Models unter dem Punkt "polarization

      Zitat

      1. The Unreceptive Women

      Unreceptive women are the ones that don't respond well to you, the ones that act uninterested.

      Each and everyone of us has found himself in a situation like this:
      You approach a woman and she ignores you, or she looks at you for a second and immediately rejects you.
      She might stay around and listen to you, but she will not say anything herself.

      You don't know why she is unreceptive. She might think you're unattractive, she might be out with the girls and doesn't want to talk to guys, she might just have broken up with her boyfriend and thinks all guys are assholes. 

      You cannot control it.

      A lot of guys, and actually almost all beginners want to get advice about how to get "That one girl that is NOT interested." 

      Truth is, when a girl is unreceptive, the chances that you can convert her into being receptive are really small. Basically, when a girl is unreceptive, she thinks you aren't compatible. You might actually be compatible in the end, but you will never find out, just BECAUSE she is unreceptive and won't respond well.

      There is some focus in the Pickup world on persisting and plowing. 
      A lot of guys don't realize that those aren't to be used on unreceptive girls, but on neutral girls.
      Persistence and plowing will have almost no effect on unreceptive girls. On the contrary, they will probably be even more annoyed with you.

      This is why rejection is a good thing. If an unreceptive girl rejects you, accept it and move on.
      Even if she did stay and listened to you, and you tried persisting, you would only feel worse about yourself for not getting her in the end, and you will have wasted time you could have used to have fun with other girls.



      2. The Neutral Women

      The category of the neutral women contains most women you meet or talk to.
      They will not be unreceptive and reject you, but they're not totally into you yet either.
      They are undecisive, and it will be your job to make them decide.

      The neutral girl is the girl that for example does not respond to your kino. You put a hand on her back and she will not move away, but she won't lean into it either; she will act as if it just isn't there.

      She will usually respond to your flirting, but she won't flirt back yet.

      There are two points of view about it:
      -Some guys think they are uninterested cause they don't flirt back. Truth is, they just are still undecisive.
      -Other guys think these girls are into them because OMG SHE LET ME PUT MY HAND ON HER BACK. This literally doesn't mean a lot. It just means she isn't sure if she likes you or doesn't like you.

      Most guys play really safe on these girls cause they don't want to fuck it up. They don't want to say anything that could upset the girl. The problem is, when you play it safe, the girl will slip further and further into the unreceptive zone, making guys wonder what the fuck happened. "It went so good blah blah then suddenly she was gone."

      The correct way to handle these girls is to POLARIZE them. I will discuss polarizing further in this thread.



      3. The Receptive Women

      Every guy's favorite type of women. They laugh at your jokes, they flirt, they move the conversation and escalation forward themselves, they play the push/pull game with you. They respond enthusiastically to your opener, they let you take them away from their friends, ignore them to talk to you, even.

      Congratulations, you found a girl that is immediately interested. It might be your looks, it might be your attitude, it might be your smile that reminds her of an ex-boyfriend or she's just looking to get laid. 
      It doesn't matter why she's receptive, just the fact that she's into you is what matters.

      Only a small percentage of women will actually act like this. I will give tips on making sure more women are automatically receptive later.

      How to handle these women: what it boils down to is basically NOT FUCKING UP and not being afraid of moving things forward. If you play too safe, you might actually turn them into unreceptive.

      Some guys are hesitant about escalating. Trust me, if a girl is returning your kino and touching you when you say funny stuff or for whatever reason, you can always escalate faster than you think you can escalate. Everytime you escalate and it works, realize that she would have allowed even more. ALWAYS.

      If she does return your kino and is flirty, don't hesit

       

       

    4. strawberrycream

      strawberrycream

      @roue: weil Frauen nunmal auch Individuen sind. Es gibt keine allgemeingültige Formel. Man "arbeitet" ja mit Menschen. das sollte man immer im Hinterkopf haben. Jeder und jede von uns erzeugt nen eigenen Kontext und darauf basierend dann den weiteren Verlauf. 

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